When people get married, they usually do it with the idea that it will last for the rest of their lives (until death do us part). Unfortunately, this is not always the case. What can alleviate this difficult and unpleasant situation is divorce mediation. However, many people avoid mediation because they have wrong beliefs. Therefore, with this text, we will try to break down some of the most common prejudices.
Many people think that mediation is effective only when it comes to simple cases. However, in complicated cases, each side has its own lawyer. And each of the lawyers is focused on the well-being of only his client, which can further complicate the situation. The mediator, however, works in the interest of both parties, which enables even the most complicated situations to be resolved for mutual benefit.
Divorce Mediation is only possible when the ex-spouses are on friendly terms
In fact, it is not true. Bad relationships can complicate the process and make it much longer than necessary, due to the negative emotions involved. Therefore, mediation focuses on compromises and solutions that will suit both, and it is not even necessary for two people to be in the same room at the same time.
Does the mediator make a decision? Not at all, because a mediator is not a judge. Mediator’s task is to help each side make a decision and find a common agreement.
It’s not for high-net-worth couples
n fact, in such situations, going to court can take not only a lot of time, but also money spent on legal fees. The focus of the mediator is to find a solution that will suit both, which opens up many more options and possibilities.
Divorce Mediation requires the presence of an attorney
It is also not true. Although the presence of an attorney is not prohibited, in most cases it is superfluous. However, keep in mind that the role of the mediator is to be neutral. If you want specific legal advice, then it is advisable to have an attorney you can turn to.
In addition to these misconceptions, what should also be kept in mind is one very important thing. In order for mediation to be successful, in addition to an experienced and professional mediator, the good will of both parties is necessary to find mutual agreements. Mediation makes no sense if you go with the idea that things will be resolved entirely in your favor. Therefore, before you decide to mediate, you must be ready to make certain compromises.